Is she INTRESTED in me now?

so i work with this girl. i had huge crush on her couple of motths ago, i was crazy about HER, i try to ask her out couple of times. but it didn't work first time, and second time i asked her clearly and she keep asking me "when/where" in a way, she didnt want to , then she says, i'm busy now days. and said we'll hang out when there's something special going on, like ur b-day party just passed.


after that she started being unfriendly, and work related person. so i backed off! i try to be good co-worker, frnd.





and on her birthday last monthe, i drew a flower on a paper, n wrote "HB-day" and since then, i noticed, she been trying to be sweet with me, nice, and been showing some real intrest in me..





and i don't know what to do? i mean, i asked her out before, got turned down. should i ask her again. i want to, but i think of past 2 times and dont' feel like asking her, plus im not that intresed in her nomore, but she seems more interested in me.





WHAT TO DO BOYS AND GIRLS?

Is she INTRESTED in me now?
Girls like to be chased, if you have cooled off, she is trying to get you to continue liking you.





She is playing games. Cool off. Play dirty. Flirt with her friend. Then give her a little flirt, if she likes you she will respond big time to try to win you back.





Good luck and enjoy the game playing.
Reply:Nah sorry man, she still ain't interested, try again later.





Okay ill cut it out, yeah she definately does seem interested now after you wrote that note to her, why don't u try talking to her more so she feels comfortable with you, then ask her out! Hope it works out for you man =)
Reply:Nope, don't approach her again, especially when you yourself already realized that you are NOT that interested in her as a few months ago.





Just leave her alone and look for someone else. If not, you 2 might end up both being hurt.





Take care!
Reply:Well dont ask a mans advice for one there not women. Dont ask her out yet, show interest play hard to get every women loves that. Flirt with someone in front of her she will really want you then. Then when you do ask her out dont be those mushy guys we never fall for that. I wish you the best of luck, dont have sex with her the first nite it will give her something to think about when she see's you at work...
Reply:Great idea.. You SHOULD be still flirty %26amp;%26amp; talk with her alot more, maybe bring her some flowers one day? Or get her some chocolate? (chocolate, one of the many things that girls love) I wouldn't ask her out JUST yet, let her try %26amp;%26amp; make a move on you (like the other dude said..) good luck!
Reply:maybe she now likes u, we wont know unless u ask her.
Reply:Honestly if your not that interested anymore then whats the point? Even if she´s intrested in you she didnt want anything to do with you when you was interested in her. So try and move on its so much easyier if you think about it what if you do ask her again and she messes you about and u have feelings for her your the 1 thats goin to get hurt!! So honestly i would give up theres plenty of fish in the sea!! x x x
Reply:Ask her out again. Maybe she had a bf then and now she's free. Talk and listen to her. If you're interested or dating someone else you can let her know. But ask her out and talk to her.
Reply:Why bother to ask her out if you are not interested in her anymore? BUt frankly, girls turned down guys' request sometimes is 'cos they want to know if the guys are really interested, which if they are, they would come back and ask a few more times. They are testing the guys, the depth of their feelings and their patience. Don't be fooled by them. They might look like angels........
Reply:okay, stop now. continue liking her, but stop showing her. girls love that attention, so by asking her out your putting the ball in her court so she can have you when SHE wants you, it has to be the other way around. STOP giving her attention, and when she realises that you have stoppes, watch her begging for you!!!! its wierd but thats the way girls work
Reply:Continue to lay on the flirting and flattery, but let her make the move on you. That way, you'll know she's interested.
Reply:sometimes it happens that due to our behaviou others feels in wrong way.May be you are right.But we cant control others mind.But when they realised their mistake they realy feels sorry by heart and tries to compensate it....


Same here is going dear.


But Still suggest give more time being friend only instead moving fast if really loves her.