How to define possessive boyfriend? (Ladies and probably some guys can help me out with this)?

Hi, how do you define a guy is possessive and would avoid him in a relationship?


My case is this: I like this girl and I see her daily at work and go for lunch together almost everyday. She treats me like a friend and already told me that she do not want to commit into a relationship with me. I would really like her to be my girlfriend hang out with her frequently.





When it rained and we are out together, I carry a big umbrella so that she don't get caught in rain.





I text her frequently wishing her to sleep well and sweet dreams.





When she work late, I stayed with her until she is ready to leave for home.





If she needs me, I will stand by her. No matter how busy I am.





When she is in danger, I grabbed her hand and pull her away.





If she is blocking someone in the supermart, I try to shift her away from the person's path.





When she is feeling down, I ask her what happened, I try to cheer her up.





On special occasions, I handcrafted something paper flower origamis for her.





Possessive?

How to define possessive boyfriend? (Ladies and probably some guys can help me out with this)?
NO, u are not possessive u just care about her a lot. A possessive person is some one the don't let her do nothing, don't let her go anywhere, told her what to do, what time to get home, what friend she should hang out with, how she should be dress etc. If she already told u she doesn't want a relationship with u, u should give her space because she may thing u are stocking her. But whatever u doing now is fine, a lot of woman want to fine a man like u.


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Reply:Honestly I don't think you're possesive at all. I think you're a great boy and she should be lucky that you like her so much.
Reply:I'm not sure possessive is the term. Maybe doormat. I mean, its nice to do things fro friends and all, but is she just using you because she knows how you feel about her?
Reply:Thats not possessive, possessive is more mean like. You sound like such a sweetheart!!! She would be lucky to have you! Take you time and show her that you really will be there for her. She will come around!