A Boy Likes Me...I Don't Like Him. What Do I DO?

This guy hasnt said it outright, but i know he does because he always tries to hang around me, is always looking at me, and even made me a paper flower randomly. I see this kid as a friend, I mean the only time I had a crush on him was in 1st grade...and now I'm in 10th. How do I get it across without saying it, that i am not interested?

A Boy Likes Me...I Don't Like Him. What Do I DO?
With boys there is no other way Tell him you have been like a brother to me since first grade friends It is great having a friend like you Then see if any of your friends are interested in him
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Reply:gurl...juss say it to him cas he will only end up getting hurt as i am right now in the same situation....i do the same thing as this guy does for u...and its really hard letting go thinkin this person like u the way they dont....ur friendship will diminish so its only gud u let him kno...so let him know right away
Reply:You're not alone, this has happened to me to once. If he is a friend of yours, tell him upfront that you want to be friends, but a relationship would change things, like you wouldn't be able to tell him about everything, or if you and him broke up, that it would mess up your friendship. And if you aren't friends, tell him that you aren't feeling the same feelings as him. If he is "stalking" you too much, like the boy that wanted me did, then I would suggest talking to a counselor or going upfront and telling him that you don't have the same feelings as him. If he doesn't accept this answer, there is always mace...
Reply:ive had to do this b4, and ill tell ya its not easy. just tell him that u can see that hes crushin on u, and that u dont really want to date anyone right now (even if its a lie).
Reply:Be honest. Tell him that you consider him a friend and nothing more. Choose your words carefully so he doesn't cling to anything that you say. Once a person crushes like that you have to be careful that nothing is said to lead them to believe that they have a chance with you. Once again above all be honest
Reply:ask him out. "just friends" is a cliche. If you are his friend. How can you not like him? he is funny cute, a good friend. it is meant to be.
Reply:same thing happened to me!!!!! i think u should sorta hint it but not tell him to his face.
Reply:I think the important question is why would you want to NOT say it? Realtionships [even the friendly sort] need honest communication. It sounds like however he get's the point, it's going to be saying the same thing, whether you say it directly, email him, have a pilot write it in the sky, stick it to a brick and throw it through his bedroom window.. [just kidding :P].. However he gets the message, it's still going to be saying "I don't like you the way you like me"





So while it's never an easy thing to say or to be told, the best and most respectful thing you can do is treat him as someone worth being honest with and just say it.... with as much compassion as possible :)
Reply:Well all I can say is that if he doesnt actually say anything or isnt doing anything to really bother you then dont say anything either. Good Luck Kim
Reply:Flirt with one of his friends or pick your nose in front of him. Do something to make him dislike you like something nasty.





Hope this helps
Reply:i understand the situation u're in, because i've been there, but you seem like the nice type to let a person down gently, so just tell him easily, that you're not interested, lie 2 him, tell him you're seeing someone right now. and if he can't get tha picture then, just ignore him, act as if he's not even there, he'll leave u alone then.
Reply:Talk to the guy and explain to him why he's not your type. If the guy is nice tell him that you still want to be friends with him.

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